Family Mediation can assist families in various circumstances after a relationship breaks down, such as considering options for separating the matrimonial finances, or the arrangements for any children of the family.
To get the best from your family mediation sessions, you may want to prepare by considering your aims and objectives, and what you hope to achieve from the mediation process. Should you wish to discuss your finances in mediation, there will be financial information for you both to gather, possibly a form to complete and the mediator will be able to set out the information required; typically, at the first or second session.
Benefits of Family Mediation
As mediation is a voluntary process, it allows the participants to move at their own pace and remain in control of the decisions being made. Mediation can often be a less stressful and more time effective route than going to court, as participants are not held to a court timetable. Mediation can also be more cost effective, as both participants are able to share the hourly rate for the mediator, however if both individuals appoint independent legal representatives, each individual will incur the hourly rate of their appointed solicitor.
Key Areas of Preparation
There are various ways of getting ready for family mediation; gathering financial documents, understanding your legal rights, setting aims and objectives and trying to be as emotionally and mentally ready for the process as possible by obtaining support in the background from family, friends, or health and/or legal professionals.
The mediation process can often be emotive; staying calm and focused throughout can assist with moving matters forward, however it is not always that simple. By setting goals and priorities at the outset, this can help you to remain focused on finding a way forward. In the mediation sessions, actively listening to the mediator and your former partner can help, as it will allow you to understand the options and consider your former partners perspective on your situation. If you require independent legal advice, you can obtain advice in the background, as the mediator is only able to provide you with legal information.
Tips for a Successful Mediation
Try and focus on looking forward and consider how you may be able achieve your aims and objectives. Whilst there will naturally be discussions about the past, the mediation process aims to focus on the future.
By coming to mediation, you may have to compromise. Part of the mediation process is being willing and open to consider options. Often by being open to negotiations and compromising, it is more likely that an outcome will be reached.
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